Ginny: When Harry broke up with me for my safety, I tried to steal the sword of Gryffindor, I restarted DA with Neville and Luna to defy Snape's regime and later fought during the battle at Hogwarts.

Harry: That's my girl!

Bella: When Edward broke up with me for my safety, I become near comatose for months, and I purposely put myself in danger just to hear Edward's voice.

Edward: *why-the-heck-did-I-like-this-girl-expression

So here's the difference between the love of Harry Potter's life and that of sparkling Edward Cullen's wife. If I were a guy, I'd definitely choose a girl who can stand without me. Just sayin, but maybe guys want to play the hero for the damsel in distress.