About Me

Hi, I'm 46 (don't know if they show age) and pretty shy. I just stumbled upon this doing a search on the web. Awkward! I've been kinda dismissive of the online dating thing. I always thought if it were meant to be, I would meet that special woman in person. I don't go out partying anymore, work one one one with patients by myself, and am a little shy so I haven't meet anyway that overwhelmingly interests me since moving to Tulsa. Don't mistake my shyness for lack of confidence. I am a very confident person. Just raised to be polite.

I live in south Tulsa. Moved here from Norman where I lived for 20 years. I am a city boy that does cowboy things. I enjoy vast experiences in life from breaking horses to going to the philharmonic orchestra. Don't care if it's interesting than I'll do it. I consider myself and other women tell me that I'm very handsome and extremely smart. I'm very proud that I have worked hard all my life, paid my way through college, and continue to be grateful for everything that I've been able to achieve in life. Blah Blah. All that's true, but I'm really wild and crazy. I will keep you laughing once breaking through the formalities..CV

My son, age 7, live with his mother in Norman. He is the light of my life and spends a lot of his time here with me in Tulsa. I love to take him fishing, playing at the stables, riding miniatures, and we spend a lot of time at the parks on Riverside. I want make sure to cover the important things that were in my life when I was his age so he can make informative choices for his own life as he grows. Probably the greatest gift my father gave was making me a truly universal man. I can plumb a toilet, roof a house, replace my brakes, write for a newsletter, publish clinical research, or speak at an annual medical convention. No big deal!

First Date

I would like to ask that person to meet me at a drink type place..preferably a coffee shoppe. Don't need a social lubricant as I wouldn't want you to be drinking at all times I spend with you. I would describe what I drive and what I would be wearing so the gal can see that I'm attractive and meet...or bolt if her vision is bad. Don't know, something low risk for both. I'd like to meet that woman in person before wasting a bunch of time emailing or messaging. That's the part that has turned me away from something like this in the past. People just wanted to email, play tag, then upon meeting, you wouldn't even want to be seen with that person not just looks wise, but personality.