A California fitness enthusiast was heavily bashed for posting a photo of herself looking incredibly fit together with her three little boys. Though plenty of people admired what she has done and were even inspired to do the same, there are still plenty more that criticizes what she has done (which is what exactly?).

32 year old Maria Kang manages to look fit and not have an ounce of mommy fat by working out regularly and keeping an active and healthy life. She says that despite her busy schedule (she manages two businesses and has no nanny for her kids), she has time to keep herself fit by having an organized schedule.

“I'm sorry you took an image and resonated with it in such a negative way. I won't go into details that I struggled with my genetics, had an eating disorder, work full time owning two businesses, have no nanny, am not naturally skinny and do not work as a personal trainer,” she wrote, in part. “What I WILL say is this. What you interpret is not MY fault. It's yours. The first step in owning your life, your body and your destiny is to OWN the thoughts that come out of your own head. I didn't create them. You created them. So if you want to continue ‘hating’ this image, get used to hating many other things for the rest of your life.”