Living your life without focusing on what you really want is like you are just wasting all your efforts to catch a lion.
Here are basic levels of human needs:
1. Physiological need = Air, water, food, shelter, sex
2. Self-actualization = self-fulfillment
3. Ego needs = self-respect, success, prestige
4. Social needs = belonging, friendship, affection
5. Security & safety = stability, order, protection
If your life lacks any of these and you want it, DM me and I will be part of your needs.